Monday, November 18, 2013

New Evangelization

November 24th, 2013 marks the end of the Year of Faith as declared by Pope Benedict XVI. This Year of Faith was themed, “The New Evangelization for the Transmission of the Christian Faith”, a year to “usher the whole Church into a time of particular reflection and rediscovery of the faith.” The process of reflection and rediscovery is not a process that ought to come to a dead halt on November 24th. The movement of the “New Evangelization” that was started by the hierarchy of the Church around the time of the Second Vatican Council is one that is vital for all of the lay people to consider in their faith lives.


                Many Catholics are hesitant about the idea of Evangelization. The idea of going out and preaching the Good News and attempting to persuade others of your faith which you know to be Truth is difficult. In some ways, evangelization seems to be a part of the history of the Church. We are familiar with the stories of the apostles and their journeys to various parts of the world to spread the good news like St. Paul and his many letters, Luke the evangelist who traveled with St. Paul, and John who traveled all around Asia Minor.   There is a distinct association of evangelization with the persecution of the early church up through the Middle Ages, which is perhaps why in this modern age we are reluctant to heed the Pope's call.

                Evangelization in modern America, however, very rarely results in death. Today, living out your faith results in a new kind of persecution. Catholic culture is by no means mainstream. In fact, living a Catholic life is very counter-cultural. In a recent homily on the beatitudes, a Holy Cross Father remarked on how living life according to Catholic teaching should not be easy. We live in a culture where we are pulled in an opposite direction. Hollywood teaches us that casual sex is the norm, that modesty is irrelevant and that we should be allowed to express ourselves in whatever means necessary. It is extremely difficult to live a life fully steeped in our Catholic faith where we evangelize through our actions rather than words.

In a recent study performed by the Pew Research Center, only 41% of Catholics report attending worship serves on a weekly basis, 41% report attending monthly or a few times a year and 17% never or seldom attend. We’ve all been in mass on Christmas or Easter in extremely over packed church’s wondering why it is we never see some parishioners at regular Sunday masses. The New Evangelization encourages us to seek out these Catholics. Catholics who have been swayed by the mass media, Catholics who need a helping hand in returning to the faith. This New Evangelization calls us to always be witnesses to our faith and to be vocal about it, to explain why we are Catholic and what that means to us and engage in dialogue with those around us.
       
          Living out our Catholic faith in light of the New Evangelization we are called to means much more than daily prayer or weekly mass. It means first being a witness in the fights we are waging – it means being willing and open to adoption as pro-lifers, it means defending the stance of traditional marriage through both word and action, it means serving and befriending the poor. Being an evangelizing Catholic means encouraging our family and friends to do the same. It means preaching the Good News everywhere we go and not being afraid to talk to others we know to be of different faiths about our own beliefs.

Monday, November 11, 2013

Discernment: What's it All About!?

Discernment: It’s one of those words you are probably very familiar with if you grew up in the Catholic faith and one you’ve probably never heard of if you didn’t. In recent years, I’ve grown very wary of this word. People throw around the word like they should be discerning every life choice. “I’m not sure if I should apply to the program, I have to discern. I’m discerning if this is the right college for me. We are discerning a relationship.” These casual references to discernment, however, detract from the real meaning. Even more than that, I’ve found myself truly frustrated with those people who use ‘discerning’ as a way to push off a commitment or a decision. Several times I’ve heard that discernment is a Catholic’s way to make procrastination seem okay. At the same time, however, discernment is a process that is taught and endorsed by the Catholic Church, so shouldn’t we support it? Well, that depends on the definition and context of discernment.


Discernment can be defined in so many different ways. We can consider spiritual discernment, vocational discernment, career discernment or everyday discernment just to name a few. Digging deeper, we can even consider different approaches to discernment, most notably Ignatius discernment. With all the different types of discernment, however, the most important aspect remains the same, and that is to be acting in accordance with God’s will. Sounds easy, right?

In a conversation with Ed Mack who works with students at ND seeking guidance in discernment, and quite an expert on the subject, he noted that the two most vital things in a discernment process are honesty and prayer: honesty, especially with yourself, and prayer, taking time out of your day and in your decision process to spend time with God. It seems like nearly everyone has a different opinion on how to go about the discernment process, with all of their suggestions including finding peace in your decision. Again, this doesn’t sound super simple, so let’s break it down.

What does it mean to be honest with yourself? Well, this should be the easy part -- if we just eliminate all the influences constantly surrounding us. Unfortunately, that’s generally impossible to achieve. So what do we do? Maybe we give up. Or maybe we first try to be honest with ourselves; are we simply using this discernment period to delay a decision or are we truly struggling with what is the right decision? And then we find those people in our lives who we can always talk to. Those people who will allow us to talk through our decisions and offer advice that we value. Our family and friends often know us best and if they’re true friends, they’ll support us in decisions we think are best for us and will push us to do better when we go down a wrong path. So talk to a friend, a spiritual director, a priest, or Ed Mack! (His office is in CoMo right by the ball floating in water and he is quite open to students dropping by whenever.)

Praying also seems like an easy task. We’ve all been taught how to pray at some point in our lives. However, when we think about finding peace with our decision through prayer, we immediately come up against the question of, how do we know if we’ve found peace? What does that mean? The problem with starting discernment in this way is that if we’ve never known or felt peace, how will we recognize if we are at peace with our decision? As a result, in addition to Ed Mack’s two criteria, I would add a third: if we have never felt peace in our lives, most importantly in our prayer lives, we must learn what it means for us to be at peace. This perhaps is the hardest piece of the puzzle – knowing that we have come to the right decision.

 
In his most recent interview with America magazine, Pope Francis offered some wisdom on the process of discernment. He said, “Sometimes discernment instead urges us to do precisely what you had at first thought you would do later…I am always wary of decisions made hastily. I am always wary of the first decision, that is, the first thing that comes to my mind if I have to make a decision. This is usually the wrong thing. I have to wait and assess, looking deep into myself, taking the necessary time. The wisdom of discernment redeems the necessary ambiguity of life and helps us find the most appropriate means, which do not always coincide with what looks great and strong.”

The process of discernment takes time and generally relates to big decisions in our lives. We need to be patient in these decisions, but also ready to take the first step.   God works with each one of us in a unique way, all we have to do is listen and follow.

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

One-on-One Time with God

Adoration, or Eucharistic Exposition, is often one of the most overlooked forms of prayer. Adoration is a time of silent worship and contemplation before the exposed Eucharist – the Body of our Lord. While not a sacrament itself, it is a form of prayer from which we receive great graces. When we consider what Adoration truly is, it seems that it is exactly what we are striving for in heaven – to be fully in the presence of God. Why is it, then, that we are not constantly running to Adoration? Why is it not a place we visit daily?

Adoration is a form of prayer that uniquely places an emphasis on you and your relationship with God. We are not caught up in the recitation of prayers or worrying that we remember the exact phrasing of the new mass translations, we are silent and we are solely in the focus of God. This is not to say that the rosary or the Mass are lesser forms of prayer, the mass is the greatest; rather it is to emphasize the different qualities of Adoration and to suggest that perhaps we need to start incorporating this form of prayer into our faith lives as well.

In some ways we can think of our relationship with God as a child in a large family. Being in a large family is fantastic – I can attest to this fact being from a family of seven children! There are many perks to being in a large family, there is always someone around to help you out or to go along with your stupid ideas. However, just like coming from a small family, that one-on-one relationship with your parents is so important and helps you grow like no other relationship can. In our faith lives, we need to make sure that we make time for that one on one relationship, time to seek God in the quiet and still and to focus just on you and Him.

Attending a half hour or hour of Adoration can oftentimes be difficult for us. We are so used to constantly being entertained-- texting, calling, FB updates, tweets and music! We have been trained to hate the silence and to never purposely “go off the grid” and not check our phones for an entire hour! In the beginning of this semester I realized that I did not start classes on Tuesday and Thursday until 12:30pm. While it sounds like every college student’s dream, I knew I’d have a hard time being productive before class if I didn’t have an extra motivating factor. Having heard about adoration sign-ups last year I decided to give it a try this year and sign up for a Thursday morning slot to at least get my day started a little earlier. In the beginning, I had a very hard time concentrating. Not sure what to do for an entire thirty minutes, I tried to completely rid my mind – it did not work very well, I tend to overanalyze just about everything. I cannot tell you exactly what it is that has kept me coming back, except that I knew I had an obligation to be there since I had signed up. I can, however, attest to the fact that I’ve always left feeling better and I’ve come to look forward to that silent time, a time of reflection and listening. As I continually try to unravel my thoughts into a cohesive prayer, I’ve come to realize that the beauty of Adoration is that we don’t have to come before God as something that we are not. We should bring all our worries, our troubles, and our exciting news, and we should lay it before the Lord. This is not to say that we should not try to focus on the Eucharist but that we should approach this time with God as a time to stop, tell God what is on our mind, and listen to what He has to say – just as we would with a parent.

Mother Teresa was perhaps one of the biggest advocates of Adoration. She once said, “Jesus has made Himself the Bread of Life to give us life. Night and day, He is there.  If you really want to grow in love, come back to the Eucharist, come back to that Adoration.The time you spend with Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament is the best time you will spend on earth.  Each moment that you spend with Jesus will deepen your union with Him and make your soul everlastingly more glorious and beautiful in Heaven, and will help bring about everlasting peace on earth.”

Together, we should challenge ourselves and our friends to spend this time with Jesus – to take time out of our hectic schedules so that we too can better understand His love and His path for our lives.


Adoration is available on campus Monday – Thursday: 10 a.m. – 7 p.m. (Coleman-Morse Chapel) and
Friday: 12 – 5 p.m. (Basilica, Lady Chapel)

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

The Communion of Saints: Do you know your faith!?

“I believe in the Holy Catholic Church, the communion of saints and the forgiveness of sins”.

It’s a line we recite every week – perhaps more than once a week, and yet, how often do we stop to question if we really understand what we mean by professing a belief in the communion of saints? I’ll be the first to admit that I have managed to rush past this line more times than I can count without stopping to question my own professed belief in the Church’s teaching on saints. Growing up in a Catholic family and attending Catholic school, I’ve been taught the importance of the “s” vs “S” saint, but how do saints become Saints? How many saints are there? Isn’t there something about miracles involved with this?


With the celebration of All Saints Day coming up this Friday (reminder: Holy Day of Obligation) I’ve decided to look more into these questions in an effort to learn more about my faith.

The communion of saints referred to in the Apostle’s Creed every Sunday refers to a communion of “holy things”, most importantly, the Eucharist. It also refers to a communion of all believers, both living and deceased, it is the unified body of Christ. The reference refers to all saints, all believers in Christ, saints with a lowercase “s”. The reference refers to us, to you and me. But what about the Saints that we so often hear about? The ones whose heads were chopped off for their beliefs? The ones who were crucified upside down or were thrown into a lion’s den? Where do they fit into the Church’s teaching?

The history of Saints in the Church is long and profound but let’s start with a process we have all heard of yet may not have a deep understanding of, the process of being canonized a saint. A recent saint canonized in 2004 by Pope John Paul II is St. Gianna Beretta Molla, I will use her story to help illuminate this complex process.

Canonization is a process that starts generally 5 years after the individual’s death and follows these steps:

(1)  “Servant of God”. A bishop gives permission to open an investigation into a candidate for sainthood in response to a petition by members of the Church. This investigation, run by a council of laypeople –generally started by friends or family members– is quite exhaustive, it includes detailed accounts of speeches, writings and eye witness accounts of the individual’s work and life recorded in a detailed biography. The conclusion of the individual ends in presenting the detailed account of this individual, now called a “Servant of God”, to the Congregation for the Causes of the Saints (part of the Roman Curia). The Servant of God is designated to a particular individual, called a postulator. The postulator gathers more evidence and eventually receives permission to exhume the body for examination.
-St. Gianna’s cause was opened up by the Cardinal of Milan after hearing stories of her holiness and dedication to a virtuous life. St. Gianna’s family had been presented with an award by the administration of Milan honoring her memory ten years prior. This award specifically honored her commitment to life – pregnant with her fourth child, St. Gianna refused an abortion and hysterectomy even after realizing that continuing the pregnancy could result in death. St. Gianna delivered her last child on April 21, 1962 and died as a result of complications with the pregnancy seven days later.

(2)  “Heroic in Virtue”. If the postulator is able to gather enough evidence that the “Servant of God” has demonstrated the cardinal and theological virtues to a heroic degree, he is recommended to the Pope. At this point, the Pope can declare the “Servant of God” as “Venerable”. At this point, the Catholic Church encourages its members to pray for a miracle through the intercession of this Hero in Virtue.
-Evidence was gathered by the newly formed Gianna Physician’s Guild in conjunction with the Cardinal Carlo Martini, Archbishop of Milan. Her case was presented to Pope John Paul II and received official approval to continue the process.

(3)  “Blessed”. Beatification is the last step before being declared a Saint. For an individual to be beatified, they must be declared either a martyr or a confessor. In order to be considered a confessor, a miracle must have taken place through his or her intercession. The miracle is determined through an official Vatican commission through a process similar to the scientific methodology.
-Because St. Gianna was not a martyr, a miracle had to be attributed to her in order for her to become “blessed”. St. Gianna’s first miracle story takes place in Brazil in a hospital founded by her brother. A young woman was brought in one night having delivered her fourth child a couple days earlier. The young woman had a serious rectal-vaginal fistula that was only able to be operated on in a hospital over 600 kilometers away. Transporting the patient carried serious risks. Three of the nurses at the hospital started praying for the intercession of Gianna and according to the patient, the pain immediately subsided. Upon examination, it was found that the fistula had completely disappeared.

(4)  “Saint”. The canonization process is complete at the declaration of Sainthood. In order to be recognized as a Saint, another miracle must be attributed to the individual. Once an individual becomes a Saint, they are assigned a feast day in the Catholic Church.
-The second miracle attributed to St. Gianna concerns a baby born without amniotic fluid. Due to a large blood clot, a physician informed his patient that her pregnancy would most likely result in a spontaneous abortion. Deciding to continue with the pregnancy, she returned to the doctor at 16 weeks knowing something had gone wrong. An ultrasound showed that the membranes had broken and there was no amniotic fluid, meaning that the child and mother were in serious danger. When treatment failed, doctors predicted that the baby would die. The local Bishop was alerted to their predicament and urged them to pray through the intercession of Blessed Gianna. After many precarious months and a complicated C-section that resulted with in more complications, a healthy baby was born and the mother regained her health. St. Gianna was canonized on May 16, 2004. Her feast day is celebrated on April 28th.

Besides canonization, here are some more fun facts about Saints:
-In the Roman Catholic Church, there are over 10,000 saints.
-We do not pray to Saints, we pray with them. Remember there is a difference between asking for a Saint to pray on your behalf and praying to God.
-At Baptism, we are assigned a Patron saint and given their name, generally your first or middle name.


Monday, October 14, 2013

A Profound Silence

In the middle of last year I found myself tied up in the craziness of being busy. Applying to internships, involvement in various clubs on campus, taking some of my hardest classes and all the while trying to make sure that I take the time to enjoy my junior year. At some point I realized that I needed a break from the constant going and embarked on a journey of silence. I had decided to sign up for a Silent Retreat held at Moreau Seminary, run by Campus Ministry. I knew this retreat was going to be different than others I had attended in the past. As I walked with a friend past the lakes toward Moreau, we seriously debated turning back; being silent for 48 hrs seemed like a monstrous feat that I wasn’t sure I felt up to trying.

Moreau Seminary
Upon our arrival we shared a meal with other retreat participants before entering into silence. Getting to know others and forming a community has always been my favorite aspect of retreats; I’ve always enjoyed hearing other people’s stories and being able to relate to them on a personal level. However, after dinner we were not allowed to talk to one another from Friday night until Sunday afternoon and so it seemed that any fellowship would end then and there.


The retreat included three sessions of meeting with a spiritual adviser to discuss where you were in your prayer life and suggestions of where to focus your prayer. Participants are paired up with spiritual advisors upon arrival and continue with the same spiritual adviser the entire time. While extremely hesitant to discuss my prayer life with someone else, I greatly looked forward to these sessions because it meant I could talk! I was fortunate to be paired up with Sister Mary Lynch, who instantly made me feel at ease. The first session that I went into I really tried to focus on prayer and not the difficulty of being silent. I was utterly surprised when I was told that I should try not to read but just learn to be in God’s presence. Here I was thinking that I had fooled the system because I loved to read and a weekend of just reading sounded very enjoyable to me.

While talking was a huge benefit of these sessions, I also found Sister Mary’s guidance really allowed me to focus my prayer life. Being silent and focusing on myself rather than building connections within a community, allowed me to discover where in my life I found God’s presence. At one point Sister Mary asked me what came to mind when reading a certain passage in the Bible and I responded with a saying my grandma always reminds me of, “you are a beautiful daughter of God”. Sister asked me to reflect on that, to think through what it meant to be a daughter of God, to be a beautiful daughter of God. It was an exercise I was in some ways uncomfortable with in the beginning – we are constantly surrounded by this pressure to be better, to compare ourselves to photo-shopped models, to save the world. What I discovered is that sometimes we need to focus on ourselves and remember that not only are we created and loved by God but we are created in the image of the most perfect Being. We are more than good enough, we are beautiful.


The end of the retreat came with a sigh of relief of being able to talk again and excessive amounts of speaking for the rest of that Sunday. Although I struggled with the silence and not being able to interact with others, my weekend on a silent retreat taught me so much more about myself than any other retreat I had attended in the past. 

Monday, October 7, 2013

What it Means to be Pro-Life: An Advocate for Love

As the current ND March for Life Trip Coordinator and former President and Treasurer of ND Right to Life, these past years have been an eye-opening experience of the inner workings of the pro-life movement. From standing in the cold rain at a life chain with St.Joseph County Right to Life to leading the National March for Life inWashington D.C. to volunteering at the Women’s Care Center to lighting candle after candle at the Grotto for the end to abortion, being pro-life has come to permeate every aspect of my life. I did not set out to let being pro-life define me but as I learned more about what being pro-life truly means, I realized that I could not truthfully call myself pro-life and limit this ideal to one aspect of my life. Along my journey in the pro-life movement, I have discovered some important truths about being pro-life that I hope to share with you.


                I have often found that there is a huge misperception of what being pro-life means in society today.  I have sat in classroom debates, had conversations and often been accused of being a bad person for being pro-life. It is through these encounters where I have realized that the pro-life movement is much more than a legal battle, it is a battle for hearts. Most commonly the thought goes, “you’re pro-life, so you’re against abortion, right?” or “don’t women deserve the freedom to decide what should happen to their body?” While being pro-life means not supporting abortion, it means so much more than that. By its very definition, being “pro-life” means being “for life”. When I say I am pro-life I mean that I am constantly striving to love life, to love my life and to love and cherish the lives of those around me. It is as simple as saying, “I want to love”. Not in this romantic, Disney-esque fairy-tale way, but in a love that allows Christ to shine through in everyone. As pro-lifers we are called not to judge but to love. We do not seek to simply end abortion or euthanasia but to love our neighbors enough that they do not have to face these difficult decisions. It is not our place to look down on those who have chosen a decision we disagree with, it is our place to call them our brother or sister and regard them as a person whose dignity is irrevocable.


                As a pro-lifer, I believe in the inherent dignity in all human life. I believe that this dignity deserves to be cherished and celebrated. As a member of the pro-life movement I cannot just oppose abortion, euthanasia and the death penalty. To only oppose abortion and not seek to understand the position of a woman in a crisis pregnancy or a family member hoping to ease the suffering of their elderly grandparent, would be a hypocritical stance. In order to truly promote a culture of life, the pro-life movement seeks to support women in crisis pregnancies, to assist those with mental or physical handicaps and to treat the elderly as beloved members of the human community. Service is just as much a pro-life act as protesting the Roe v. Wade court decision in Washington D.C. The goal of the pro-life movement is not to create legislative change but to create cultural change. To change a culture of death into a culture of life.    
           
                This week (Oct. 6th- 12th), the Notre Dame Right to Life Club celebrates Respect Life Week. This week includes a series of events to advocate and promote what it means to be pro-life. We, as a club, seek to challenge the Notre Dame student body. This week we challenge those who consider themselves to be pro-life to consider what that truly means in their lives. We challenge those who consider themselves pro-choice to consider why they hold these beliefs, and most importantly, for those on both ends of the spectrum to enter into discussion with those of opposing beliefs.     
  
                I'd like to invite all those in South Bend to attend the various events surrounding Respect Life Week. On Tuesday, Oct. 8th, join the ND Community in a Rosary for Life with Fr. Jenkins at 6:30 pm in the Basilica. Tuesday night at 8pm we will be setting up a pro-life display on South Quad, all are welcome to come out and help! On Wednesday, Oct. 9th, the National Director of the March for Life, Jeanne Monahan, will give a lecture on "What Does it Mean to be Pro-Life?" at 8pm in Mendoza Auditorium. On Thursday, all are invited to share the gift of life through donating blood on Bond Quad from 10am - 3pm and join us for a candlelight vigil at 11pm on South Quad. We will conclude the week on Friday with a LifeFest on South Quad from 5pm-7pm, come celebrate the gift of life with us!

Along my journey toward understanding what it means to be pro-life, I have heard many outstanding speeches, witnessed martyrs to the cause and come to know some of the most loving people. One of the most powerful questions I’ve been asked is this: as U.S. citizens we’ve grown up in the era following the end of slavery and racial discrimination. It is easy, in hindsight, to question our grandparents and great-grandparents, where were you when these atrocities were committed? What did you do to end this terrible evil? It is clear that we are not all called to dedicate our lives to the pro-life cause, but we are all called to witness to the dignity in each and every life.  And so I challenge you to ask yourself this, when your children or grandchildren realize that we lived in a time when it was legal to kill a person based off of their stage of development or their health, what will your response be to the question of what did you do to help change our culture into a beloved culture of life?

If you or someone you know has personally been affected by an abortion and would like to talk to someone about it, please contact Project Rachel at: (888) 456-HOPE

If you or someone you know finds themselves in a crisis pregnancy, please contact: 1(800) 848- LOVE and remember that Notre Dame’s policy is that it is committed to life and to providing resources that support the choice of life

Monday, September 30, 2013

Notre Dame Fellowship

Fellowship is at the heart of nearly every activity in the Notre Dame community. The University of Notre Dame is unique from many other elite universities because we foster a supportive community. Not only do we want to achieve success but we want others to achieve success with us; we are constantly encouraged to do our best and also to encourage our peers to do their best.

As part of a community rooted in fellowship, we rejoice in each other’s successes and help each other when we falter. The beginning of this academic year may be off to a rocky start as the Notre Dame community received three email alerts in quick succession regarding sexual assaults on our campus. We failed as a community, not once but three times. A quick response to these emails came in the form of a prayer service at the Grotto. How fitting that at a time when mistakes are made we turn to Our Lady for assistance and guidance.

Last Sunday night, Notre Dame’s Student Government’s called us together as a community to reflect on our failings and to encourage us to seek a better future. Notre Dame students came together as a community in prayer to reflect on the importance of standing together, acknowledging our weaknesses and preparing to move forward in support of one another. We know we are not perfect, we know our brothers and sisters are not perfect, regardless, we seek to always be there for each other.

Through Jesus’ own example, we realize the need for fellowship within our community. One of Jesus’ first acts in his ministry was to gather together twelve apostles. These faithful disciples gathered together in support of one another. They raised their doubts as individuals to seek the support of the community. Jesus knew that following His teachings was going to be hard; as a fallen people, we no longer live in the safety of Eden. However, coming together in fellowship allows us to participate in the renewing community of a redeemed people.

Just as in the time of Jesus, being a Catholic is not always easy. We are often called to stand up for beliefs that go against the cultural or societal norms. The teachings of the Catholic Church do not change as society’s view changes; they remain grounded in the firm reality of truth as revealed through Christ to the Church on earth. This truth is oftentimes counter-cultural, making living out the values of a Catholic life very difficult. It is in striving to live our lives in a Christ-centered manner that we must form a community around us that we know will support us, even in our failings.
The Notre Dame community faltered in its recognition of the human dignity of others. We failed because we let our brothers and sisters fail. However, we must surround each other with the hope and support of the fellowship of Catholics. As much as our achievements define us, we must ensure that our failures do not define us.

Any time that we, as a student body, receive an email about a sexual assault, Student Government is committed to holding a prayer service immediately following. Through our turn to prayer as a community, we are reminded that we must rely on the Redeemer and find our hope in Him. Notre Dame is a unique university because we place our trust in God and encourage others to follow us on our journeys.  We are a community, rooted in the truth of God’s teaching, attempting to live in a world that may not always support us, and so we must make sure that fellowship remains alive in our community.